How Sex Toys can save a marriage...

Sex toys saving marriages? Yeah right!

Actually it is true. Researchers say that the top 5 reasons that marriages fail these days are:

1. Money
2. Communication
3. Trust
4. Infidelity
5. Sex
   

Well toys REALLY can help in each of these categories (and in more ways than one!).

Money.
How can sex toys improve money problems within a marriage? Well 2 ways actually! Most people fight because they are spending too much money on frivolous things or just don't have enough money to make ends meet.

SEX IS FREE!!! You don't have to have money to have it whenever you want to. You dont have to spend anything to enjoy it! You already have all the necessary tools!

Toys can help with spending by creating reasons to stay in. When date night means "Staying In" instead of Dinner and a Movie, money no longer becomes an issue. If a couple chooses to stay home and have an intimate date night instead of going out- They can save $75+ each week. That equals out to $300+ a month in savings alone! Plus, I guarantee that there will be many more memories from a date night in!

Is money tight and causing stress? Well there are many different ways that toys can help with that too! Brown Bag Party offers a way for Women, Men and Couples to earn an extra income thru selling our products in the homes of others! We have no quotas and consultants are paid the night of the party. Since you set your own hours, you only work when you want to! With our 50% commissions, you can make excellent money in only a couple of hours of free, educational fun!

Communication.
Is there a lack of communication between adults in your home? This is one of the biggest problems that busy families face today. With kids, work, and responsibilities that come with raising a family and owning a home, it is hard for Men and Women to connect these days! Sometimes we need to put the family life aside and talk about anything but the kids! I think that we can all agree that "alone time" is not the time to talk about the grocery list or what the kids did at school. This is the time to discuss fantasies and let the stress of your busy life, melt away.

When using sex toys, communication is key. You need to talk to each other and tell each other what feels good (and what doesn't), how your lover is making you feel and what fantasies you want to share. Communication between the sheets does not even need to be spoken. It can be something as small as a drawn breath with a touch, the arch of your lovers back when you touch their favorite spot, or just looking deeply into each others eyes. Using good communication during your lovemaking is the only way to ensure that both parties leave satisfied and feeling connected to each other again.

Trust.
Trust is a major factor in marriage failure. When there is no trust between partners- any one will fail. Trust is something that everyone has to earn and the trust between loving couples is one of the most sacred treasures imaginable. Using sex toys is absolutely a trust tester. Most women would never dream of using a toy during the first time with a new lover. Sex and Sex with Toys is one of the most important places to have trust in your lover. When using enhancement products, you need to know that your lover is not going to hurt you in any way. For many, seeing their lover give themselves completely to the other is the biggest turn on. It shows that the trust between them is greater than that of any other and it is something to be cherished!

Infidelity.
When a partner is unfaithful, there is usually an underlying cause. No one is unfaithful "Just Because". Trust, Communication, and other issues are usually the cause. We have already mentioned how Sex Toys can help with those two and Infidelity goes hand in hand with them. When there is more communication and trust in each other, there is generally less reason or likelihood of infidelity. Lovers do not have a reason to cheat when their emotional, physical and mental needs are being met by the one they love the most.

Sex.
At last we come to sex. Why did I save this one for last? Well it is because I wanted you to understand that all of the above will lead to better sex. Sex does not necessarily lead to them!

Yes obviously sex toys are going to enhance sex but it is more of the other way around! When the Money, Communication, Trust and Infidelity issues are resolved, sex will become more enjoyable! You will have less "Baggage" in the bedroom and you will be able to come out of your shell and be open to all the pleasures that intimate love making can bring! You will enjoy that closeness that sex brings, the inside looks and light touches that you will shower on each other, and the glow that a healthy sex life brings wont hurt either!

I hope this has helped to open your eyes to the possibilities that a happy bedroom can bring to your marriage! Bring back that spark that your lovers touch used to give you! Send the kids to the grandparents for the weekend, turn off the tv and re-discover each other! I just might save your marriage!